?Corporations Shouldn’t Be Our New Morality?
Rant time, babes,
Sorry, I heard some news and it just struck a fucking chord.
Hi, btw! XD It’s been a while. I’ve been doing so much website stuff to transfer members over to the new software. I’m literally in the process of rebuilding the damn library because I realized there is no plugin available to do the transfer, so I have to do it all manually. It’s going to take time and I don’t want people in a limbo of not being able to sign in. I’ll be sending out emails with updates to each member once their new account is ready and their new password available, so keep an eye out.
I’ve had a few epiphanies the last month when it comes to being content focused on the website. I’m looking at creating the ability to let new members pay $5 to either read the library of finished books, or $5 to read the new stuff as I write for the month. I want economically friendly choices just in case the $10 for both is just too much for some people. I’ve finally gotten past the emotional obsession I had to ‘fix’ all the old stories. Unless it’s part of a larger series, I’m not touching the old stuff. Letting go and moving forward. It’s also time to stop trying to get things ‘publish ready’ like I’ve been doing with the PATB books. It’s why I’ve spent so much time on those stories and not had time for any other projects. They’re long and I wanted them ready for publishing so I gave them all my focus, and because of it, the website has been suffering with only that content being added.
I’m taking the website back to a focus on taboo stories. You know, the stories that have been ignored while I’ve been writing perfectly awesome PATB books. I miss the dirty sex, and I need to find a damn balance to ensure the hot stuff is being written with the more sweet stuff. There needs to be more dirty books written, no joke. Half because they’re awesomely fun, but also as a fuck you to all this bullshit censorship happening. These books need to multiply instead of disappear.
I have to adapt to a new model of writing where multiple stories/series are updated instead of one again. I’m stretching, relearning, getting this brain to work now that it’s healed. It really is a lot of relearning how to do the same old shit and getting over my neurotic perfectionism. It’s not easy but it’s where I want to be as a person, so it’s well worth the work.
Seriously, you want a medal for basic human decency now?
Okay, so Starbucks finally gets around to giving their workers sick leave. This is a company founded back in 1971, and whose net worth is $30 billion. 5 days a year you’re allowed to be paid when you’re sick to keep you from coming through the door and working, that’s their sick leave. And no, they didn’t do it for some altruistic reason such as, well, giving a fuck about their workers. No, they didn’t want their customers getting sick. That was their mentality for this. Sick customers = bad business. So, Starbucks finally gets around to being somewhat decent on such a base level, and they get mad accolades from the public. A company who cares!
Similarly, the leader of Amazon comes out after being pressured by progressives to say he’s going to be raising all of his workers’ minimum pay to that of what some experts (these numbers are already old) would say is the bare minimum to living. That means ideally for a worker, their bills are paid, their heat is paid, they can pay rent, they can get to work, they can get groceries, and, maybe, if they’re lucky, they can pay their taxes and also have some left over for the kids, right? Here’s hoping health care is included in that, cuz it’s usually not affordable. A living wage is just getting by. There is no profit for the people making it, it’s just not being in poverty. So big cheers for Amazon for setting a standard to pay their workers enough, barely enough, while most other companies don’t even do that.
Nike and Gillette had huge, controversial (dear fuck, why is this shit controversial?) marketing campaigns. Nike for the acknowledgment of protesting as being acceptable in a country that is still battling racial inequality and a prison system built around oppressing black people and the impoverished, and Gillette for acknowledging it’s okay to have a penis and not be a total dickbag in a country that is still battling gender and sexuality inequality. It’s a big fucking deal for these corporation to do the bare minimum of reflecting back the major sentiments already in the country and in most modern societies on the globe. Normalizing equality? Wow, what a freaking shock, right? Accolades, cheers, awesomeness for just being real instead of trying to sell their products. Companies marketing to the future instead of the past. Brilliant.
And, in the midsts of all this supremely basic shit of just being rational in an irrational world, Tumblr bans any adult content to the point of women having hard nipples show through their very modest clothing being removed, Youtube demonetizes anything that uses fair use (aka, LEGAL content,) Facebook blocks anything potentially adult, and Amazon and all major book retailers ban certain subjects pertaining to erotica and romance in fantasy, to the point that sex ED books are placed in erotica or removed completely. Why? Well, we know for a fact with Tumblr it was to sign up Verizon as an advertiser, and Verizon doesn’t want certain sexual content to be associated with them. The whims of a 229.1 billion dollar company has decided the moral/ethical standards for 456.1 million users of Tumblr in the matter of one business deal, just so Verizon can have the ability to market their shit to those users the company wants to change.
Amazon (a 1 trillion dollar company) has decided the moral and ethical standards for the readers who consume the hundreds of millions of ebooks a year on their platform. If Amazon says it’s okay to have books about straight sex, but not gay, they can set a standard for millions of people and then other book platforms as to if gay books are allowed. And if this feels like a stretch, many books being banned are within the MM genre and it started on Amazon before other platforms like Barnes & Noble started following suit. Amazon has been caught shadow-banning erotic books (meaning they can’t be ranked and therefore can’t be seen by customers,) removing erotic titles completely with no explanation, banning authors who are just too good at selling books on their platforms, etc. I wish I were joking, but yeah, that was a huge thing in 2018. Amazon removed accounts of authors who were too good at selling their books. They claimed the authors were making money through illegal means but were unable to show or prove that was the case. Since it’s illegal as an author to have a lawsuit against Amazon, the authors lost their livelihoods without court case or trial or any fucking way to speak up for themselves and their reputations.
What’s my point in all this? EMBRACE DISCOMFORT!
When companies are giants, and they say something is ‘right’ and something is ‘wrong,’ (therefore setting moral and ethical standards,) society starts imitating those beliefs. Not necessarily on purpose but through what is available, what is SEEN. When a playing field is filtered so that no one can see that gay people exist in movies, people who live in bubbles of culture get very uncomfortable to realize gay people exist and it perpetuates the fucked up mentality of trying to make them disappear.
How many men freaked out when Deadpool was pegged by his girlfriend? He’s currently the queerest super hero on the big screen and he doesn’t even screw guys in the movies. We finally had a movie about black people that wasn’t about them just being black and dealing with racism and oppression. You know, they were allowed to just be people. This shit is taking too long! And it’s because the companies who hold the power to make our media aren’t looking to reflect society but to pander to the people who are uncomfortable with diversity.
Where do you think that old line comes from of ‘I don’t care what they do, just don’t let them get married,’ in reference to gay marriage? That comes from the mentality that marriage belongs to only one group of people (usually white and religious and straight) and it can’t belong to anyone else because that group is not exposed to the vast, beautiful wonders of this diverse globe. They think their experience is the only experience, partly because they lack other experience and are uncomfortable in gaining it. The same with when you had the apartheid in South Africa and you couldn’t mix those of different skin colors as a fucking law. When people grow up in a culture devoid of diversity, they normalize it and then push that oppressive belief structure on everyone they meet. Their discomfort sets the norms of society. Gross.
This is ancient era bullshit in a modern world. Segregation is not acceptance and it’s not equality and it sure as fuck isn’t enlightened, modern thinking, but we still can’t get certain races/genders/sexual orientations represented properly in media because some consumers are too fucking uncomfortable. It helps no one. When it becomes normalized, the way billion to trillion dollar companies have the power to make basic decisions and normalize what is on our television sets or computer screens, those wrong, fucked up decisions can start normalizing negative beliefs.
People have to stop running away from discomfort and face the fact that many people are fucked up over sex because of the repressed cultures they’ve grown up in. And how in the world are they going to be able to do that when books about sex disappear one after the other because someone thinks it’s acceptable to discriminate against fiction? How can people be allowed to think for themselves when in this modern world we’re finally breaking free of ancient, oppressive religious systems only to discover corporate policies are trying to be the creators of our morality and ethics by literally removing that which they disagree with?
Either it’s a ‘free’ market, or business owners are just talking out of their asses, being hypocrites while trying to control the market. And just so we’re clear, I will protect a corporate entities right to send a message (even if it’s an old fashioned, fucked up message) because I as an adult am well aware that my behavior and beliefs are still my choice no matter what messages are bombarding me. But I won’t sit here and bullshit that it’s okay for a company to discriminate based on the books people write or read. When Gillette made that ad, were they saying we’re not selling razors to men who believe in ‘boys will be boys?’ No. But Amazon is saying they’ll ban your books and even you as an author if you don’t conform to the moral/ethical standards they refuse to even state about sexual content in fiction. There is a huge difference there.
Think. That’s all I want for the world. For people to think and to break free of the mental cages they have built around them. There are enough assholes out there with superiority complexes who think they’re the only ones allowed to be free. Sociopaths who think they have a right to tell other people how to think and then profit off of them. Our books are our thoughts. Our writing is our thoughts. Our stories are the lessons we learn, the random thoughts we share and others enjoy. Who the fuck is anyone to take that away and make it disappear? To say which thoughts are right and wrong? Especially companies who don’t even have the decency to pay their employees a living wage while they profit off their labor?
Corporations aren’t some evolved, brilliant form of humanity that are going to save the damn world. They’re comprised of the same fucked up people living in the world today, and that’s it. They make money (some,) they destroy the environment and economy (some,) and it’s not a reason to believe they hold greater value over the individual.
It’s time to end corporate welfare and to stop allowing businesses to decide our ethical standards. Stop cheering for them to do the bare minimum when they have set the standard of people working 3 fucking jobs and not making enough money to live. Corporations suck at giving a fuck. They don’t care about people and their welfare, just how to take money from their pockets. It’s sickening—in a world where many can’t afford health care.
There is something in the human mind that is sourced back to our days of tribes where we feel we need to listen to what we perceive the majority is, be it the loudest voice, the most aggressive, or the most powerful. It allows really fucked up people who hoard wealth to have power over the minds of others. The same way we as a society need to overcome old software like anxiety and PTSD in the modern world, so too do we have to get past this tribalism bullshit.
We are a globe of humanity, and if that’s scary, you gotta face it and get over it already. The world isn’t going anywhere no matter how afraid some people are. Discomfort is not an excuse for oppression and discrimination or the rationalization of irrational, toxic behavior.
Also, seriously, fuck Trump. How disgusting to watch such a transparent manipulation of minds work in his orange crusted hands. That people are more comfortable with a known rapist and xenophobic bigot instead of reality is just a sad, pathetic reflection of the society we’re living in. People have to stop running away from reality and face their shit instead of making it other people’s problems.
*deep breath* Cathartic. Totally.
Back to boring ass website stuff for me. The bulk work is nearly done. Hopefully be back to writing soon. Sorry no freebies this week, just juggling too much. See ya around, babes. <3
Very well said! If only others would look at the world the same as you.
That would be the importance of being loud. *wink* Exposure therapy for the world to have new thought processes instead of relying on the old shit that only got us so far. I watched the Internet rise up and create a second culture when I was just leaving high school, you know? The world has changed so quickly and we gotta adapt and be better for it already. It’s bizarre how many old ideas are still being circulated when they just don’t work for the modern era.
You go, kiddo!
(Okay, yeah, I know you’re a grown-ass adult, but I’m like a zillion years old, so I’m allowed that, right?)
Missed your site going off, because I’d given up on making it work for my Methusa device/software. Will wait for the advisory that the new site is up and in shape, and then try again.
Keep up the positive, ’cause negative is all around, kinda like a sunny clearing in the dark forest, with creatures crawling through the earth underneath and dark storm clouds barely held at bay on the edges of the sky…
Lol, kiddo away. After being sick so long, I feel like I’m growing younger now (devolving??? XD) I’ll take being a kiddo while I can pass.
I’ve been working hard on positive mentality, plain ass rationalism, and speaking my truth lately. I don’t know if it comes from something chemical like brain inflammation (sorry, going nerd) or environmental such as belief structure and hearing too much negative stuff, but I’ve been in a mental rut for a while and I just haven’t been genuine to myself. I’m glad to be finding the light at the end of that tunnel. Self doubt is a bitch. Oh, I get self awareness has its perks to help us not be sociopathic assholes to each others, but when you get to this point of wanting to be silent for fear of everything you say being taken the wrong way, it’s just misery. So when I find myself back in the control seat of my mind, I want to share if only to help other people find their way back too.
Nice to hear from you Linda, and I hope you’ve got some sunshine in your life to keep you warm and charged through your days. <3
I’m so happy your health is back on track. Wonderful news about the website have fun doing it.
Shit, do people know I’m feeling better because I’m ranting? Lol, this might not be healthy. XD
Thanks, Tannie! I’m planning on having fun. That’s been what’s missing the last few months. I’ve been very proper and focused like a good little writer and there’s been little fun to be had because of it. Time to be bad again. <3
As long as corporations are allowed to buy what they want from politicians who do not believe in one man one vote, but in greedy one corporation all the votes, our government will fail to protect the people. You ain’t seen nuttin’ yet!
Glad you are feeling better.
This! Because it’s obvious people in the government are profiting off the deregulation of business. The moment lobbyist were allowed to legally bribe our government it was all fucking over. We’ve just been watching to see how damn blatant and daring they’d be in robbing the country. Of course they don’t want votes to count: if they did, Trump never would have stepped foot in office, nor would Bush. It’s amazing how the American public can just rationalize it away. They willfully justify a ridiculous rule in a game of life and death for millions because hey, it was present to them that way. I swear we’re living on fairy tales when we think about the world around us, and few actually see what’s in front of their face.
Might I recomend a simylar system to your webbsite as Rayth Reign, (also known as X. Aratare). She has a system that non-payers may read the first 5 chapters from any book, but if you want access to more you have to pay around $9 a mounth. Think you should check her site out, thou she is remaking it too becouse of new laws =_= Anyway, good luck and csnt wait for new stuff, love your books!
Here is a link:
Hey, Jessica. You know, Raythe was one of the authors I truly admired when I decided to try this writing thing. She wasn’t afraid to do what she enjoyed (while holding down a full time job, if I remember correctly) and she ignored what was set up as a ‘norm’ when it came to the writing system and instead presented an amazing subscriber based model. It wasn’t until I started seeking out other authors on Facebook that I realized how unique she was and how she completely ignored the bs and ‘rules’ the writing community tried to set out as being allowed to succeed. She bypassed the Amazon ranking game completely, and although she might have had a leg up because she was one of the first when the Internet was new, she lasted for a reason while I saw those first subscriber based models just slip away over the years. Tenacity in a changing world matters and she’s got it.
I didn’t know new laws changed her situation; any clue what they might be? I haven’t been on her site in a while–I think getting sick has just taken away a lot of the joy of what started me on this journey and I really want to get back to the roots. What I do know is I can’t compete in the same sense as Raythe–she is a writing machine with a huge catalogue, and she is on top of her shit in the best of ways. So whatever I end up doing, I have to be aware of my personal limits while trying to make a good experience for readers. But that’s what I love about being a writer; readers aren’t limited. They don’t choose only one author to read and say fuck off to everyone else. They read what they like when they can afford the $$ and time. As long as there is something new of quality to read, readers are happy, and because of it there doesn’t have to feel like a sense of scarcity among authors. We don’t have to compete with each other but can instead work together to provide something awesome for readers. I swear that’s how some genres have just exploded lately–that creative growth and inspiration in a market that pushes a more community based experience pays off.
The site will likely see a lot of trial and error–I mean, I’d be naive to assume I’m going to just ‘get it’ and have it click and never change–but I’d rather that than this method of pushing myself until I break and then needing to recover. I’m hoping by focusing on what I want Sadie Sins to stand for when it comes to genre focused content, I won’t get as lost as I’ve been feeling the last half a year–but again, that could have been health too. This year has been an extreme spectrum of feeling my best and worst in a short amount of time. We seem to have gotten to the different roots of my health problems finally, but I’m still being cautious when it comes to planning like I’m on solid ground. As long as I’m going in with a sense of awareness of my limits, and listening to feedback and hearing what people want (instead of just what I think they want,) I know I’ll be moving in the right direction, even if it might be slow to gain ground.
Really nice to hear from you Jessica. Apologies for rambling away. You caught me during my wordy time. XD Take care!
A profound. Hear Hear!!!
Hey, Blaine! ^.^